Robbie & Molly have just seen the tickle monster! |
When I was writing this week’s blog another thought occurred
to me. Kids need to be taught how to play, be creative, have fun
and they learn by example. So what I have concluded is that we as parents have
to be as silly, funny and creative as possible and basically make a fool of
ourselves to teach them how to have fun with lots of great games right from the start. This has been my
parenting style and I have to say I am happy with the results so far with the
younger two, Molly & Robbie, who are at this moment, preparing to perform a
magic show as I type this blog from my kitchen table.
So here are a couple of tried and tested suggestions to get
going with from a young age. As always if you have any suggestions please let me
know so I can share them. So here we go…
What’s in your Tummy?
This is one that Jackie’s mum used to play with her as a kid and she loved it so much she couldn’t wait to try it out on the kids. So next time you're all snuggled up with the kids on the couch, bed or anywhere put your hand on their tummy and knowing what you gave them to eat during the day simply tell them what you can feel in their tummy. “Is that an apple in your tummy?” “Did you eat a banana today?” or “I think I feel some toast in your tummy, yum yum!”. Keep going through all the things you gave them to eat during the day and the kids will be amazed at your hidden powers to see inside their tummy.
This is one that Jackie’s mum used to play with her as a kid and she loved it so much she couldn’t wait to try it out on the kids. So next time you're all snuggled up with the kids on the couch, bed or anywhere put your hand on their tummy and knowing what you gave them to eat during the day simply tell them what you can feel in their tummy. “Is that an apple in your tummy?” “Did you eat a banana today?” or “I think I feel some toast in your tummy, yum yum!”. Keep going through all the things you gave them to eat during the day and the kids will be amazed at your hidden powers to see inside their tummy.
Tickle monster
The kids go mad for this one and it gets lots of giggles. I
can only imagine that every mum or dad does this with the kids but just in case
here it is. Put both your hands in front of you and shape them like a claw and tell
them the tickle monster is hungry for some tickles. The rest is easy, just get
tickling on the tummy ribs under the arms, neck, knees, elbows and anywhere else you
can find a tickle. The kids love it.
Staring
competition
I love doing this with Molly & Robbie and highly recommend
giving it a go. I’m sure you know the drill. Stare into each other eyes and the
first one to blink, giggle or twitch loses. I always have fun with this one but the best part is that I always get a magical moment that can’t be explained, when for just a couple of seconds our
eyes simply say "I love you so much" to each other, it’s amazing.
Guess what I’m
drawing on your tummy.
Again another way to have simple relaxed fun with the kids and as the name suggests simply draw a picture, letter or shape on their
tummy and ask them to guess what it is. Of course all the answers will always
be right it’s not mastermind so you will be able to give lots of those
all-important hugs of praise for all the correct answers.
Sock puppet show
We're all into puppets in our house and have puppet pigs,
sheep, birds and vampires which are brilliant fun and I highly recommend
having some in your house for some creative fun. But when the moment catches
you either after dinner at the kitchen table, on the couch or in bed with the
kids, grab a sock put it over your hand and slowly creep it up in front of the
kids face when they are least expecting it and simply make it say “Hello!”. The
reaction is great maybe you should have a camera ready for this one.
Here's a clip of Robbie & Molly performing a puppet show for me:
Here's a clip of Robbie & Molly performing a puppet show for me:
That’s it for this week more magical moments on the way but something new coming next week I can't wait to tell you about!
Bye for now.
Benji
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